1. Def. and General Information:
Stimulation of vaginal area using mouth and tongue is known as performing oral sex or cunnilingus.
Performing oral sex can be one of the most wonderful things you can do for a woman. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and has the potential to give her exceptional orgasm. Most of women prefer it to intercourse, and for those who require a large amount of clitoral stimulation, it is the easiest way to orgasm. Besides, lots of men and women expect it.
There is little more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious; meaning that you enjoy the taste, smell and feeling of her vaginal juices. At the same time, there is little exciting to a woman than to think that you don't like the taste and smell of her most intimate region. If your partner has a smell that is more than you can handle, or she doesn't feel comfortable with you down there, suggest talking a nice got shower or bath together.
Remember, there is almost nothing you can do that will feel bad, so relax! Any licking and sucking should feel great to your partner.
2. Oral Sex Techniques
THE INITIAL LICK :-
As a start, try licking her from vaginal entrance up her clit and following the outer edges of her vagina covering both sides, giving and down and vice versa can be a great way to start your lovemaking and will relax her and get her in mood.
HOLDING THE LABIAL:-
Hold the two parts together gently with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time on repeat.
TONGUE INTERCOURSE-
The majority of a woman's nerve endings in her vagina are around the opening and within the first couple of inches inside.
Hit them with your tongue where performing oral sex by inserting it into the vaginal opening, then licking gently in circular motion combined with flicks of the tongue.
FLICKING-
Spread her outer vaginal lips whith your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently lick and flick your tongue across the clit and into the vagina.
When doing this make sure go gently and see the response before being harder with your tongue. Most women need to be extremely wet to enjoying this as it is quite an intense feeling for many women.
CLIT SUCKING-
Expose her clit by spreading her lips and gently pull back her hood. Suck the clit (be gentle) and then let it go and repeat again. This can be incredible turn on and will be very frustrating, warming her up for the other cunnilingus techniques that are outlined here.
HOLDING THE CLITORIS-
Take the clit in your mouth and suck on it gently, at the same time flick your tongue around it. This can be done very lightly or aggressively or a combination of two (find out what your woman likes first). This is normally intensely arousing when done correctly.
MAKE A B C-
Try using your tongue to spell the alphabet, when performing oral sex.
[Note :Some points to keep in mind while performing oral sex
i) Ask your partner what she likes. She can give you directions such as harder, slower, faster, more circles etc.
ii) Fill your mouth with as much saliva as you can before you begin and never touch or lick the clitoris with try tongue or finger.
iii) Don't go for the clit direct. Make sure she is warmed up and aroused. Try gently kissing and licking around upper thighs and valva area and work your way upto the clit.
iv) Use variety of ways to arouse her. Don't repeat the same motion.
v) Continue to touch and hold her as she orgasms and after and make her feel wanted and loved.
vi) The clit has more nerve endings than the entire head of the penis, so be careful not to be hard with it. Go gently and remember ask her all the time what she likes and doesn't ]
3. Oral Sex Vs Fingering: oral sex is better then fingering
As an enthusiastic pussy (vagina) eater I am amazed at how many guys are reluctant to go down on a girl. They have all manners of excuse, the lamest and most common being," I don't need to- I am good with my fingers."
However, fingers can never replace oral sex. Here's why-
Oral sex is physically better for a woman than fingering. Your fingers are hard, dry and chafing. But your mouth, by contrast, is warm and moist.
Much more importantly, oral sex is psychologically better than fingering. The intimacy of your face in between her legs is a huge turn on for her. Compared to this, foreplay consisting only of probing fingers seem platonic and impersonal.
This is not to say that fingering a girl is not exciting to her. But, oral sex is something that every guy should learn and something that fingering can never replace.
Now, with that said...the worst pussy eater are those that go down on a girl reluctant with an attitude of distaste. Think of how much of a turn off it would be if you came in a girl's mouth, then she spat it out with disgust and rinsed her mouth out with listerine. Then, think how much of turn on enthusiastic swallowing is. This is the difference to a girl between a man who's reluctant to go down her, and one who lover to eat her out.
4. If you find yourself turned off
Sex is a gloriously messy activity and you should relish in the feel and taste of her naked body. If you find yourself psychologically turned off by the idea of going down on a woman, this is a limitin belief that you should work to overcome.
Continue here for remaining part
Stimulation of vaginal area using mouth and tongue is known as performing oral sex or cunnilingus.
Performing oral sex can be one of the most wonderful things you can do for a woman. It makes her feel loved, admired, sexy, and has the potential to give her exceptional orgasm. Most of women prefer it to intercourse, and for those who require a large amount of clitoral stimulation, it is the easiest way to orgasm. Besides, lots of men and women expect it.
There is little more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious; meaning that you enjoy the taste, smell and feeling of her vaginal juices. At the same time, there is little exciting to a woman than to think that you don't like the taste and smell of her most intimate region. If your partner has a smell that is more than you can handle, or she doesn't feel comfortable with you down there, suggest talking a nice got shower or bath together.
Remember, there is almost nothing you can do that will feel bad, so relax! Any licking and sucking should feel great to your partner.
2. Oral Sex Techniques
THE INITIAL LICK :-
As a start, try licking her from vaginal entrance up her clit and following the outer edges of her vagina covering both sides, giving and down and vice versa can be a great way to start your lovemaking and will relax her and get her in mood.
HOLDING THE LABIAL:-
Hold the two parts together gently with your lips, run your tongue between the inner and outer labia one side at a time on repeat.
TONGUE INTERCOURSE-
The majority of a woman's nerve endings in her vagina are around the opening and within the first couple of inches inside.
Hit them with your tongue where performing oral sex by inserting it into the vaginal opening, then licking gently in circular motion combined with flicks of the tongue.
FLICKING-
Spread her outer vaginal lips whith your fingers. With your tongue pointed, gently lick and flick your tongue across the clit and into the vagina.
When doing this make sure go gently and see the response before being harder with your tongue. Most women need to be extremely wet to enjoying this as it is quite an intense feeling for many women.
CLIT SUCKING-
Expose her clit by spreading her lips and gently pull back her hood. Suck the clit (be gentle) and then let it go and repeat again. This can be incredible turn on and will be very frustrating, warming her up for the other cunnilingus techniques that are outlined here.
HOLDING THE CLITORIS-
Take the clit in your mouth and suck on it gently, at the same time flick your tongue around it. This can be done very lightly or aggressively or a combination of two (find out what your woman likes first). This is normally intensely arousing when done correctly.
MAKE A B C-
Try using your tongue to spell the alphabet, when performing oral sex.
[Note :Some points to keep in mind while performing oral sex
i) Ask your partner what she likes. She can give you directions such as harder, slower, faster, more circles etc.
ii) Fill your mouth with as much saliva as you can before you begin and never touch or lick the clitoris with try tongue or finger.
iii) Don't go for the clit direct. Make sure she is warmed up and aroused. Try gently kissing and licking around upper thighs and valva area and work your way upto the clit.
iv) Use variety of ways to arouse her. Don't repeat the same motion.
v) Continue to touch and hold her as she orgasms and after and make her feel wanted and loved.
vi) The clit has more nerve endings than the entire head of the penis, so be careful not to be hard with it. Go gently and remember ask her all the time what she likes and doesn't ]
3. Oral Sex Vs Fingering: oral sex is better then fingering
As an enthusiastic pussy (vagina) eater I am amazed at how many guys are reluctant to go down on a girl. They have all manners of excuse, the lamest and most common being," I don't need to- I am good with my fingers."
However, fingers can never replace oral sex. Here's why-
Oral sex is physically better for a woman than fingering. Your fingers are hard, dry and chafing. But your mouth, by contrast, is warm and moist.
Much more importantly, oral sex is psychologically better than fingering. The intimacy of your face in between her legs is a huge turn on for her. Compared to this, foreplay consisting only of probing fingers seem platonic and impersonal.
This is not to say that fingering a girl is not exciting to her. But, oral sex is something that every guy should learn and something that fingering can never replace.
Now, with that said...the worst pussy eater are those that go down on a girl reluctant with an attitude of distaste. Think of how much of a turn off it would be if you came in a girl's mouth, then she spat it out with disgust and rinsed her mouth out with listerine. Then, think how much of turn on enthusiastic swallowing is. This is the difference to a girl between a man who's reluctant to go down her, and one who lover to eat her out.
4. If you find yourself turned off
Sex is a gloriously messy activity and you should relish in the feel and taste of her naked body. If you find yourself psychologically turned off by the idea of going down on a woman, this is a limitin belief that you should work to overcome.
Continue here for remaining part
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